Not Anymore - LeToyaLate pass on getting myself familiar with this song. 
After listening to it, I was automatically set back into my "single days", days of dating one undeserving dude after another, wondering when the hell am I gonna finally meet someone who gave me the hope that gentlemen are still among us. I know that they always say "nice guys finish last", and unfortunately it's true because of all the assholes out there and all the girls in denial of being "that girl" who changed the bad boy for good. It takes a lot of 
courage for a female to release herself from the unhealthy containment of a dude that doesn't treat her good. When you're going from one bad relationship to another, you always hear that old cliché that you shouldn't settle for anything less than what you deserve, throw the bad fish out because there's plenty more in the sea, etc. But I understand that making that 
first step is the toughest. It's so hard to finally break that cycle. You go through withdrawals, or you lie to yourself that given a little bit more time he'll finally come around. You catch yourself thinking that if 
He sees how better off you are now, then he'll change and become that knight in shining armor you've been desperately searching for. Sad to say, but that day will NEVER come.
There's nothing more depressing than having to hear the tale of a girl who truly doesn't know her worth. Or even worse, she does in fact know her worth, yet she's succumbing herself to a guy who swoons her with sweet nothings. There's a reason why they're called "sweet nothings"- as sweet as they sound, they mean NOTHING.
I guess the reason why I'm so riled up tonight is because I spent a good 2 hours today listening to my two best friends talk about their current dating situations. Which brings me to another point: Has it been that long since I've been out of the dating scene, or has dudes' "game" gotten worse? Who "talks game" nowadays anyway? Fellahs, we are in a brand new era. Please leave all that "Hey ma, what's good? Where you stay? You gotta man? etc. etc." back in 2000, because it sure as hell didn't work back then neither!
Anyways. Point of the matter is that all this game playing needs to come to an end. Females need to stop messing around with these two dollar dudes, and guys need to recognize a good thing when he sees it. Point blank period.